But actually, it's 110% true.
I found out the other night at an FRG meeting. It was not mandatory, so it was a small group of spouses. We were able to ask any questions, so I asked when would we know for sure what date they are leaving. Jack had told me he would be on Main Body 2 or 3 just half an hour prior to the meeting, so I was just looking for specifics. His commander asked for Jack's name. I told him, "Holt" and he said, "You're not going to like this." I thought he might be teasing, so I waited patiently while he looked up the deployment schedule on his computer. Sure enough, he wasn't teasing. Jack was leaving on ADVON, before the majority of his unit. Of course, I reacted like, No way. And for three whole minutes, he discussed it with me in front of all the spouses while I tried to remain calm (and not cry!!). They had no idea we were newly married and had never been through this before. A little later, I noticed a wife in front of me crying, so I didn't feel as embarrassed. I'm not sure what's considered normal yet!
I left the meeting early and called Jack. He was shocked. Everyone on ADVON had a briefing, and he was not told that he should have been there. He thought that for sure it was a mistake, that his commander had an old list. The next morning he asked his boss when he was leaving, and is boss said Main Body 2 or 3. Jack asked him to check to be sure and he was surprised, too, because, sure enough, Jack was definitely on ADVON. He called me to tell me yesterday morning but I already knew in my heart it was true.
Realistically, the difference between is really only a little over a week. But when you're as close to it as we are now, every day matters. This weekend we are going to try to get everything ready so we're not frantic right before he goes.
We still don't know what company he is going to, which will also tell us if he will stay in Kuwait or go somewhere else. At this point, things have changed and either location will be fine. We should be able to communicate regardless of where he is. That's definitely a blessing.
I also told some wives at the Bible Study I go to on post about our situation with the deployment and all the frustrations I have, especially about how he keeps getting switched around and I don't know anyone in his unit (or company...since that is changing). They were so supportive. One of the women suddenly had the idea to change their weekly kids' "play date" into a prayer group, and we're meeting this week. It was definitely daunting that Jack is leaving so soon, but I finally feel like I have some support here because of the Bible Study. I know God is looking out for me, and it's such a sweet feeling.
My mom is also flying in, which I am so grateful for. It just works out, because she was flying to Vanderbilt with my brother the Tuesday after Jack leaves, so she can meet him there. Then, after she leaves, I'll have just a few days until my maid of honor comes to stay with me for the weekend. I just feel so blessed and grateful for the support of family and friends. I'm also keeping surprisingly busy with acting. Tomorrow, I have a shoot in Denver for a short film. It will be an emotional shoot, but I am excited for it. Jack is coming to the filming, so I think it will be fun. I have 'callbacks' on Tuesday for the other two student films I mentioned before. Hopefully, I can get these other two and stay busy! There is a play I was auditioning for, but it was the night before Jack is supposed to leave, so it's not going to work anymore. I explained the situation so I'm praying they will let me audition at a different time.
Right now, Jack and I are just spending the quality time together that we have left. We're celebrating each others' birthdays today (in more of a goofy way than actually celebrating them) and going on a date tonight. So I'm just counting my blessings.
Quote of the week:
Jack (early in the morning): Baby, I reeeeeally want Lucky Charms. Go and get me some at the store...It's my birthday.
Me (groggy): Haha yeah right... it's my birthday too.
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